Your Employees ARE NOT Getting Poached
Saying all the right things into the mic, in front of the lights, to members of the press works sometimes. It still works when that first rockstar employee walks. It still works the first time you step on someone’s back to hoist yourself up the ladder. If you’re good it still works when the handful of employees have success elsewhere. If you can prove profit and success consistently it might sustain throughout the duration.
Just beware of that tipping point. Sometimes pulling a small thread unravels the whole ball of yarn.
Reputation earns you the benefit of the doubt until it doesn’t. — Behind Closed Doors – Oct ’09
Dear Ignorant/Naive Executives,
SIT DOWN. STOP TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF FOR FIVE MINUTES AND LISTEN TO ME.
Your employee turnover has LITTLE (probably nothing) to do with the fact that your organization is doing anything right.
Maybe what THE EMPLOYEE is doing right, but most likely that YOUR company still doesn’t get it.
Your employees ARE NOT getting poached. (Unless you’re Google…)
Chances are there are multiple reasons employees are running for the door.
Maybe they don’t believe in giving every potential customer the hard sell.
Maybe you’re manipulating your workforce.
Maybe your employees work harder than you. Or at least they perceive that they do. In which case you need to ask yourself, “Why?”
Maybe you should read my, “Just Because You’re the Boss,” post.
Poaching happens, there’s no denying that. But if over 75% of your workforce has departed in two years time then please WAKE UP. It’s not because you’re doing everything right. It’s not because your innovative, and it’s certainly not because you’re an awesome company.
People don’t stay or leave a company because of their skills. They stay or leave because of working conditions, (Berrin Erdogan, a professor of management at Portland State University, Harvard Business Review)
The BEST companies often retain their employees despite offers from other companies. It’s not often people leave inspiring work environments, autonomy, great co-workers, a vision they believe in, and a solid paycheck.
Here’s another tidbit for you. In my (albeit limited) experience there’s only a handful of people that are actively getting offers from other companies while currently employed and not actively seeking. These people are few and far between, and they’re typically older. If young people are leaving, it’s probably because they were LOOKING TO LEAVE.
If for five seconds you could take a step back and acquire some perspective it might enable you to plug the drain, to save your company. Stop lying to yourself. Your monumental ego is part of what got you here in the first place.
I’m serious. Stop. Think. Ask yourself, “Why are all these people leaving?”
- Is it because I don’t pay anywhere close to what they’re worth?
- Is it because the organization isn’t going anywhere?
- Is it because of you and the way you manage people?
Until you turn that lens on yourself and really WANT to get to the bottom of why everyone is leaving (They’re not going to tell you honestly in an exit interview for fear of you trying to hurt their career) you’ll never really know. They’ll keep leaving, and you’ll keep telling yourself they’re getting poached because you’re doing something right.
And you’ll be dead wrong.
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ABSOLUTELY! Stop blaming it on others and look at yourself. Typically, most people quit their boss, not their job. Develop your people and treat them right. People are the core of the organization.
Thanks Ryan!
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Ryan Stephens Reply:
March 8th, 2011 at 6:36 pm
People are indeed the core of the organization, which is why more leaders should hire slowly and fire quickly if someone isn’t a good fit. Great point about quitting the boss too – I certainly think it’s true that people leave more often than not citing issues other than the work itself.
Any boss who insists their employees are getting poached, when in fact they’ve lost 6-8 people from a 10-12 person organization in 2 years time has certifiably lost their mind. AND the fact that they’re not consistently filling that pipeline just shows they’re obviously not that ‘innovative’ or there would be enough business to back fill those positions, not just re-align priorities. Of course, (sinister grin), I’m not talking about anyone in particular.
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Great post and it’s something I have been thinking about these days as well.
Business has changed. Marketing has changed. Lots of people haven’t and they still bring their old tired game to the ballpark despite the fact the game is different.
Worse, is when employees just give up and stop giving a shit about the company and where it’s going. Then you end up with a bunch of underutilized or even useless people dragging you down while you think you’re rocking.
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Ryan Stephens Reply:
March 8th, 2011 at 6:38 pm
Valid points Danny. The most important one being that the game is changing. Those that ultimately refuse to see it, and then neglect to adapt to it are fighting an uphill battle.
If a leader can’t tell when an employee is checked out – I think that says more about the leader, the vision they’re communicating and the culture of the organization than the person who stopped caring.
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